Morning Routine

How much time does it take you to get ready in the morning? The majority of us, slightly over 56%, take any time between eleven and thirty minutes getting ready. Based on a recent survey, only 2% take less than five minutes, while at the other extreme, 3% take over an hour. 15% of those educated after high school and 9% of college graduates take ten minutes or less, while this is only 2% for those educated up to high school or less.

While education may appear to be a factor, there is of course more than just a function of education involved. There is a huge disparity and the amount of time it takes to get ready for both men and women. Gender has a role too. The time differential of the current “average individual” was measured across all activities for a survey, even giving as detailed breakdowns such as comparing shampoo times. In this case, for example, men average of three minutes per shampoo for a woman and two minutes for a man. While some time differences don’t seem substantial like that, they actually do add a bit when taken in a yearly context. In that shampoo example based on an average of 183 showers per year, women spend almost three hours more per year just on washing their hair. Other more general neutral activities like brushing your teeth and using mouthwash were more equal in times.

But of course and woman’s hair and make-up routine can be significantly increase a woman’s average morning routine time. Hair and make-up alone take up an estimated 39 minutes a day of a woman’s time. Over the year it takes 24 days 7 hours and 40 minutes just to be a woman, as opposed to 9 days 5 hours and 27 minutes for a man.
Of course some women choose to go without makeup, and some men have much more expensive skin care routine for example, but it’s an interesting study, not only in how you break down your time, but also in the expectations and norms that end up costing time, and not just money. Sort of like a pink clock tax perhaps!

But centuries ago, when men wore wigs (think back to portraits of composers such as Mozart, Haydn and Beethoven), it may have taken the men a lot longer to get ready!

The Forties

The forties are a defining moment in your career. At your forties, you are likely to have had a stable job, children, mortgage, It is an important time of your life – the consolidation of your work and life so far.

Another reason for the importance of the forties is a negative one. If you get passed over for an opportunity, unfortunately this means your slow decline within the organisation. Getting managed by people your aged is not the problem. It could be worse. At least you are not being bossed around by some young twenty something graduate with little work or life experience. Unless you happen to be some non commissioned career soldier in the army having to kowtow to orders from a recent graduate officer. But if you get passed over for managerial positions it means you get lumped together with the young new graduates, who will be eager to please, have more energy to expend, have less life commitments. And if opportunities present themselves to all you junior employees, it is them, young and still having years to give to the organisation, that will be considered.

You could take a lesson from the military. Many start off on the non-commissioned scale, moving up as specialists to sergeant majors. A few then go off to officer training school, where they end up as lieutenants, the most junior of officers. But it gives them a shot at being general, the highest of the officers. You can’t be a general from being a sergeant major. Making the leap to the officer ranks gives you more avenues for promotion.

If, by your forties, you don’t make the transition towards managerial positions, in some sort of junior management role, then your career is likely to stall. That is because you are going to be overlooked in favour of the younger colleagues. Put it this way, if there is a promotion due upstairs, and all things being equal, employers know they can promote the younger person because it would be getting a cheaper salaried person to do the job.

Did you know the Italian music composer Giaocchino Rossini was already well established by the time he was in his forties? At the age of thirty seven he was already travelling and semi-retiring. He made his money off operas, and never wrote a work until three decades later! You can find out more about Rossini here and also read more music trivia from the Piano Teacher Crouch End N8 website.
Don’t let your forties slip by without planning!

The value of patience

Often you will hear people decry that they are no good with numbers, as if it excuses a lack of effort by confusing it with predetermined inability. Is there really an inborn inability to deal with numbers? We also hear misguided generalisms such as one being better with words than with numbers, as if the skills of language and mathematics cannot exist together side by side. But there really is no lack of understanding, it is more a lack of effort. And when I state a lack of effort, I don’t mean a lack of effort at working hard, I mean the lack of effort at patience and understanding.

When we attempt a new skill, we are more than likely not going to get it right the first time. If we do, then that skill was probably not that difficult in the first place and we would have actually not even considered it a new skill to begin with. After all, a skill implies something that requires some form of sustained effort to master. It is unlike you could play the piano to a good standard without even having touched it before.
Piano playing is a skill. But you could play the piano because you have mastered another instrument like the flute, and the crossover in musical knowledge allows you to attain a good entry level at the piano in a short attempt.

When we try something new without any previous overlap, we will make mistakes and not get it right. And this is where the patience comes in. We need to focus less on the end product and think about how we can achieve it. Often the realisation that one has to devote time and effort to get to that stage puts people off, because they realise they don’t have the patience to work at it, or the patience to try slowly. They are willing to do repetitions of an activity, but not patient enough to analyse if the activity is of value to warrant the time in it.

Learning a musical instrument can be a good way of teaching this kind of patience. With a keyboard instrument, you get the instant gratification of multiple sounds, and the realisation that if you are patient enough to work at it you can produce something quite good. And if you live in the Harringay area, why not get in touch with a piano teacher in N15? You learn songs you like, while developing the patience at getting better!

Social Media Possibilities

Your choice of social media may have more influence than you think. Research shows that a high percentage of social media users believe that the predominant choice of social media may reveal more of a user than the user himself or herself would like. This has particular relevance and bearing in terms of age. It is believed that your choice of social media may reveal how old you are. How is this possible? We tend to jump on the social media bandwagon when they are at the zenith of their powers, so depending on when you signed up and when these platforms hit popularity, we can make a rough estimation of the age of the user. The assumption of course is that we only stick to one or two social media platforms when we could actually be using many of them and have multiple accounts. And even on the same platform, we may have two identities. Irregardless of this, there is the perception that Facebook is for older people, while Instagram is for the younger generation.

Some social platforms may be associated more with certain age groups, but there is no denying that they all present opportunities for users to make income while monetising their followers. Users can sell any original product they create to their followers. If you have many followers, this presents many potential buyers for products such as crafts, web services, or web products. And even if you feel that you may not have an original product to offer, don’t be tempted to pass off someone’s original work as your own. You will at some point open yourself up to litigation. If you are a singer and doing a cover of someone’s song, make sure you apply for a mechanical license, after which you can sell your own version. It may even be more successful than the original. Elvis Presley, for example, popularised the song Hound Dog despite it being a cover version of the original. (You can read more about this from the Piano Teachers Harringay N15 blog.)

If you have no original product to sell, you can instead try making an income from affiliate marketing, where you earn a commission from selling other people’s stuff. You can set up a virtual shop easily – just be familiar with e-commerce. A third method is by being a social influencer, where the product promotion is less overt, but where someone gives the impression of being successful by virtue of using certain products, influencing others to follow suit.
Social media does open up a world of income possibilities. If you were based in Brighton and had an arts and crafts business, it would be helpful to join local groups on social media, and also link up with like-minded individuals outside of Brighton. Managed carefully, social media could help your business expand well.

Seen, yet unknown

She is one of the most seen faces around, from newspaper advertisements, websites, and magazine advertisements. She promotes a variety of products, from childcare services, important topics such as immigration, skincare and beauty products.

Is she a supermodel? You might think that with all the publicity that this particular person gets, to be able to grace the pages of various print media and be seen in advertisements, that this must be someone well known. It must be a household name known to millions, have millions of followers on social media, and have tweets retweeted by the thousands. Her instagram pictures must be the holy word of her followers.

Reality could not be further from the truth. The face that features so much is the anonymous face from a stock photo. A writer in Canada found out the hard way how her image had been used across various media to promote a variety of causes without her permission.

Shubnum Khan had signed up for a photo shoot ostensibly offering a professional portrait shot in exchange for use of the photo for artistic purposes. There had been a contract signed, in which the author gave away the rights to the image, essentially signing them off to the photographer, who stood to make a tidy sum from the image.
Perhaps the author could take it as a compliment – she has a radiant face that gets deep into the heart of every person that views it. Or maybe her face is perceived to be trustworthy, honest, and beautiful, and inspires one to commit to whatever cause her face has been used for. But it is no laughing matter to find that after you have consented to your photo being used for a stock image, that it is used to market causes that you may not agree with.

At least Khan can lay claim to having various sides to her portfolio. Just like the composer Muzio Clementi, who was a composer, publisher, pianist, conductor, piano manufacturer and salesman, Khan can say her image is so beautiful that it has been considered for use by various individuals. (You can read more about Clementi from the Piano Teacher Harringay blog, but unlike Clementi, who would have been pleased to have many strings to his bow, it is unlikely that Khan would feel the same!

Duplicity and Tenure

Have you ever been in a situation where perhaps one of your co-workers or a manager tells you one thing, and then in another situation, says the opposite? This person does not link together the fact that saying contradictory things doesn’t really help at all. And I’m not really talking about making an honest mistake in expressing meaning; I’m talking about a deliberate attempt to misrepresent the truth. If you were faced with such a person, you might describe them as a bit of a weasel, or a snake; saying different things to different people and being shifty with the truth. This person, as you and many will realise, has displayed impropriety with the truth, and in future dealings you might say you can’t really trust them any more.

If you were a bit more positive about the whole thing, you could point to this person’s actions as the result of mental fatigue of some sort. Perhaps this person has been overworked and is showing signs of not being able to cope.

Perhaps the pressure of dealing with the work situation is causing the person to make mistakes. You could point to the mental tiredness as the reason for making this sort of error – if only to put a positive spin to it.

I suppose it really depends on the error. If the contradiction dealt with one minor aspect, it might be forgiven. For example, if someone said they would go out with you for dinner, and then within twenty-four hours said they were unable to, then it would really be a small point. But if it was a major decision, involving high stakes, then this sort of “double negative” really doesn’t make a positive and would not be seen in the best light. Especially if it comes from someone “high up” in an organisation.

So when someone like Donald Trump makes contradictory statements about Russian collusion with the United States voting process, he doesn’t really do himself a lot of favours.
Perhaps the President is more style than substance, trying to demonstrate overtly than be silent mettle. He could take a page out of the book of the Italian tenor Placido Domingo, who despite having to live in the shadow of the more extrovert Luciano Pavarotti, went on to have a longer career at the New York Met. (You can read more about this post, written by Piano Teacher Harringay.) Perhaps Trump might have a longer career in politics if he learnt something from Domingo!

Dealing with exs

Seeing it is World Cup month, let’s discuss some football news. Fortunately for Brighton, nothing much is going on in terms of managerial changes. Not so much for Chelsea though.

If you follow football, and are a Chelsea fan, you will know that manager Antonio Conte has now a new title. Ex-manager. The most prolonged divorce in Chelsea football possibly has been settled, and both parties have worked out the pre-nup.

Why did Conte get the boot? After a season in which he won the League title in his first try, relations between the manager, team, and hierarchy soured so much that the only way after a poor second season, despite the FA Cup win, meant that Conte had to leave no matter what. It really wasn’t so much a case of would it happen or not, but when it would – and it has now.

Team owner Roman Abramovich has made no fact that he is out for success, and Chelsea have a reputation of not being patient when it comes to winning. Conte is only the latest casualty in a line that have included Jose Mourinho. It is almost as if Abramovich keeps changing managers before the public have a chance to get attached to the managers, just so that everyone knows who the boss is.
It is really a game of egos. In the Chelsea team, the owner wants to be loved by the public. Yet having spent large sums of money on players in the past decade, he must be miffed that the public is more in love with the manager than the owner.

Conte himself got rid of a few big egos, the most notable being Diego Costa. The attacking centre forward, famous for getting under the skin of opposing players was dumped by text despite a stellar season and being a part of the team that won the Premier League. Some say that the management of the whole affair was poor; Chelsea’s arguably best player spent three months of the campaign holidaying in Conte’s second season and the protracted affair was too much of a distraction. Bosses also queried the sale of Nemanja Matic to Manchester United, where he emerged as a solid prospect protecting United’s back four. The treatment of Brazilian Willian was also strange, seeing as he was one of the better players but spent most of the time coming off the bench.

Where does that leave Chelsea now? Nobody knows, although Maurricio Sarri was touted to come in and his compensation package was being worked on. (EDIT: He has been confirmed.)

But how will the new Chelsea play under a new manager?
Just like in music, where the sonata form bridged the two eras of the Baroque and Romantic, would the counterattacking play of this season be the link between Conte and Sarri? Or will be it a complete break with the past, and will Sarri institute a new style of play? It remains to be seen. (If it so happens that you are interested in sonata form, though, you can read it from the Muswell Hill piano teacher blog.)

Music and the World Cup

The World Cup is played every four years and hence when it is the year that it takes place, one can expect that the anticipation and build up explodes in the allocated timeframe. It is, in a way, like presidential elections which take place every four years, from new worlds arise from old beginnings. And so it is not unusual to expect that everyone around is going on about the daily new events and reliving them, even when they are on the beach. When you are lying around on the sun-kissed sand, I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to talk about football or things that have already happened and analyse them profusely. But maybe some people do – to each his own!

The surprise of the tournament can be said to be how poorly the big teams seem to be playing. Spain and Portugal laboured to lacklustre wins and draw, while Germany are out. After the opening game, when Spain and Portugal drew to a 3-3 draw, it appeared that this might be a World Cup of goals, but instead it has turned out to be a World Cup of visuals. VAR, replays and more replays. As if it weren’t bad enough watching people in the scenic beauty of sun, sea and sand, staring at screen, it is staring at them staring at video replays of what has just happened!

VAR was responsible for showing that the first goal scored by South Korea in injury time should have counted, even if it was flagged offside by the linesman. Now, say what you want about VAR, about how it has stopped the game, but can you imagine without it how the game may have turned? The German team would not have been forced into going forward, and goalkeeper Manuel Neuer may have been spared from making his mistake.

The German team was trending on social media with many keen to make fun of their demise. Perhaps – continuing with this visual theme – one can expect many videos of THAT mistake accompanied by music from songs such as “Wrecking Ball”? I can only expect that will be many montages and Neuer will never be able to live it down. And if you are making a spoof of that footage, make sure to get the correct timing and the effect will be great. Let’s take for example, we are using the music from Wrecking Ball. When the chorus comes in, “You came in like a Wrec-king ball,” make sure the “Wreck” aligns with the moment the ball is nicked from Neuer by the South Korean player. If you wish to know more about how music in film works, you can check out this post by the West Green N15 piano teacher.

The hidden sense

As summer approaches, the party atmosphere in Brighton comes to life. Summer days mean warmer weather, and longer periods to enjoy life and all it brings. For some this means parties on the beach that extend well into the night hours and continues in the discos. We listen to music endlessly on our phones, then take in some more and more. After all, music is free, right?

While we enjoy the summer days, there must be things we need to be aware of. For example, listening to loud music for an intense period can affect our hearing. Even listening to averagely loud music but for a longer duration can have an impact on it.

Think of the ear as a muscle like your arm – if you force it to lift heavy loads, it is an intense burst within a short period of time. But if you make it lift light loads, but repetitively, you get that dull ache that comes from endurance work.

The music itself need not necessarily noisy, or associated with a loud genre; even Classical music dating from the Baroque or Classical, but played loudly, can affect your hearing. (Although it is admittedly not that trendy to be bopping along to classical composers like Handel – maybe crossover music would be better?)
So as the summer approaches, maybe a lifestyle choice would be to be mindful of the noise your ears are exposed to.

If you want to go out partying and enjoying all the things that young people do, then by all means do so, but do look after your hearing. Otherwise when you are older, you will be bopping to silent disco music! And that is not necessarily the version with wireless headphones on, it is the one where there is no sound around you.

Brighton revokes Uber license

Uber’s license in Brighton will not be renewed, making Brighton the third city in the United Kingdom to revoke the minicab’s operating license after London and York, which revoked the license in September and December respectively. As with the case in London, operators are free to continue while the ban is under appeal. One can only speculate that this is why Uber chose to appeal, in order to extend its operating term indefinitely in the city. Uber did lodge an appeal in York but withdrew it, and is not operating in the area any more. Its London contract is too lucrative to lose and will be subject to a hearing in June.

There are many concerns about Uber. One is that concerning safety. It is easy for drivers to offer their services to Uber as long as they have a clean driving record, but that is no different from hopping into a cab driven by a stranger. The only part Uber claims to play is in matchmaking those who need a cab with those who can provide a cab driving service at a particular point in time, and hence if there is a complaint oof some sort, the matter is – conveniently as Uber claims – directly against the driver, and hence out of its hands.

I suspect that the decision to revoke Uber’s licenses in various cities is more a protest against how it operates. Uber does not have employees, or so it claims. The drivers provide its services but are not employed by that. Because of this, they do not have any employee benefits. Uber has also cleverly exploited loopholes in the law to avoid paying corporation text, so despite making millions in turnover, the drivers make very littie and the company pays very little tax.

Uber’s dancing around the law is perhaps more emblematic of society as a whole. Uber claims it is not a taxi company. It does not own vehicles. It is only a hiring service. In a way it is like saying musicians do not produce music; they only find a way for record companies, who wish to sell products (records and digital downloads), to match their products to particular buyers (fans). According to the website piano teacher finsbury park blog, musicians have always needed to be creative, but this dancing around the law that Uber is doing perhaps was a step too far, a tango too much for those taken along for the ride.

Will Brighton survive Uber? Surely there are many other licensed cab companies around already?
It would be interesting to see how Uber employees (in the loose sense of the word) rate against other employees like Deliveroo or Just Eat employees. One suspects the latter companies all operate under the same dubious guidelines.